Men are such confounding creatures. Let’s examine a classic scenario.Girl goes out with Guy.
Guy is a true gentleman. He tells her that he likes her, that she is beautiful, and that he will call her the next day.
Girl keeps phone by her all day, but Guy doesn’t call.
Girl goes crazy wondering why he hasn’t called.
Girl loses self control and sends Guy a text message, to which he responds. Finally, Girl points out fact that Guy said he would call.
Guy calls.
Now what is a girl supposed to think when, the day after an amazing date with someone she thought she felt a mutual connection with, that self-same man seems to have no interest in talking to her? Why does she feel like she’s forcing him into conversing at all?
It seems intuitive that if a guy goes out with a beautiful girl, whom he claims to like, he would want to talk to her as soon as possible ... right?
Overall, I sympathize with the three-day rule, but it doesn’t apply if the guy explicitly claims he will call the next day.
Upon the utterance of those words, the rules go out the window, and we’re working on an honor system.
For a girl, there are few things more important than for a guy to do what he says he’ll do. Being a good kisser is up there too, but integrity still trumps.
And calling is essential, because a silent phone throws you into a whirlpool of self-doubt about things you felt sure about while on the date. Suddenly, you're drowning in all the little things you did that could have made him change his mind about you.
In the end, you’ll have to chalk it up to his being an ass. It can be hard to come to this conclusion if the guy in question seemed really amazing, but in the end, if he was worth your energies and attentions, he’d be excited to talk to you again.
Ultimately, a silent phone = being alone ... and that’s his loneliness we’re talking about, because he’s the one missing out on your beautiful self.
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